Always talks about how much of a man he is and oftenĢ. On their own, none of these or most of these are absolute signs, but with a DL man they will start to add up:ġ. He said a man on the DL really can't hide it as well as he thinks, it's just a matter of him masking it, and he said that we as women can pick up on things. He gave me some sound advice, but the most important thing he said was to pay attention to a man's behavior and temperament.
He wrote me back and we corresponded a few times. I asked him about the guy and what he thought. A youtube video I saw about the DL and one of the posters seemed DL or interesting so I wrote him privately and told him about a guy I had dated that was suspect. Since there have been so many topics on gay men and DL men, I wanted to post this.
